I watched these vedois over and over during my breakup and they helped. I then wasted my money on the Tdub book and got ignored through the mail and my phone calls to him. I started looking around and found a book called Surviving a Breakup: Getting Back Your Ex For Good. The book is by Matthew Mehra. I got the ebook version for reading on my iPad, but you can get a printed version also. It was cheaper than Magic of Making Up and it worked to help me get back the person I love back.